They think it’s creepy and even put them the same category as pedophiles.
But many people in society still look down upon older men dating younger girls.
You don’t have to look far to see most men find women to be at their most attractive in their 20’s.
On the other hand, many women are most attracted to men in their 30’s, 40’s, and even 50’s.
And they generally have more self-confidence as they know who they are. — When it comes to this subject, older men are painted as shallow horndogs manipulating younger women. But what about all the couples who fall into this category (including my parents) who are in love or married for decades? Are you saying these women are coerced and manipulated into being with these men?
Combine women’s desire for a strong, mature man and men’s desire for a young, healthy woman to bear children and it all makes sense. Attraction is an emotion that we can’t help but feel. These women are willingly and happily choosing these men.
If those words made you cringe, I’m sorry, but I’m just trying to be as direct as possible. Any way you want to look at it, complications such as down syndrome and miscarriages in pregnancy rise with age.
So it makes perfect sense that men are driven to younger women who have the lowest risk factors. Since they were teenagers, many women have idolized older men.
I will ask you a lot of questions and make sure you know that I know how special my daughter is. No, I’m not going to be nosey, rude or obsessive about it But, if my daughter’s phone just happens to be laying on the table, and I see she’s gotten a text, I might take a look at it.
Most of us don’t actively choose what we like or don’t like, our body chooses for us. If you’re making excuses for them, you are calling these adult women brainless fools who are unable to make their own decisions.
That in itself may be the most disempowering, anti-feminist view I can think of.
Before I get attacked as somehow being sexist…look at the anecdotal evidence.
On average, men in all societies date younger women.